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The Women's Journey The Stones The Impact of the Decade and the Visits Opportunities andChallenges |
At dawn they were walking sadness on their minds spices in their baskets
in the midst of the lost
Living letters to the churches,
But the stone
And the stone
We are too weak, too small, too few...
We met them during our journey
Morning is coming in the garden
We met many signs of hope during our journey
we met women and men
And the stone was rolled away
The disciples
And we met them during our journey
But Peter stood up
We met those men during our journey
We found men in the garden
And in the garden of that Easter morning
In the garden
In the deepest moment of Christianity
And we met them during our journey
And in the garden
And we met them during our journey |
Irja was part of a "readers' group" who reviewed the team reports of each mid-Decade visit and drafted two interim summaries. She was present at the group's last meeting in November 1996, where the task was to draft this final report of the mid-Decade visits programme. During the meeting, those taking part reflected on the story of the rolled-away stone. This theme inspired the launching of the Ecumenical Decade Churches in Solidarity with Women in 1988, and it has been part of the Decade process since then. The group's reflection moved Irja to compose this above poem.
The story begins early on Easter morning when the
women were getting ready to carry out their traditional task of taking care of the dead. They
had prepared the usual spices and had set off knowing that they were going towards a huge
stone.
Fully aware of that immoveable obstacle awaiting them, the women set out on a hope-filled
journey, ready to struggle for life, inspired by their vision of the community of faith - a
church that is inclusive, faithful, prophetic, welcoming.
The story of this journey has been repeated many times since that first Easter morning. Over
and over again women have set out on a road towards death, the stone and resurrection.
Early in our own century, women challenged men in the churches to acknowledge their
presence and right to participation. The very first assembly of the World Council of Churches
(WCC) in 1948 received a report on "The Life and Work of Women in the Church" and
commended it to the churches for serious reflection and action. Each succeeding WCC
assembly has made specific reference to women's participation and called for special focus on
their concerns and struggles in church and society.
A turning point in the WCC's work on women came with a path-breaking conference held in
Berlin in 1974. Under the theme "Sexism in the '70s", it marked a shift in the focus from
cooperation between women and men to issues of social and economic justice for women. The
1975 WCC assembly in Nairobi, coinciding with the United Nations' International Women's
Year, carried this discussion further, and called for theological and biblical enquiry into
women's insights and experiences. This planted the seed for a worldwide study on "The
Community of Women and Men in the Church", jointly sponsored by the Faith and Order
Commission and the WCC's Sub-unit on Women in Church and Society.
The study encouraged the emerging women's movements in churches around the world. A
new stimulus came with the WCC's decision to participate in the UN Decade for Women
(1975-1985). The WCC central committee, meeting in 1985, heard a report on the UN
Decade's achievements. Few churches had responded to a questionnaire sent out by the
sub-unit to assess the impact of the UN Decade on the status and place of women in the
church. Noting that the UN Decade had not directly addressed the churches, the central
committee identified a need for more focussed action by the churches; and at its meeting in
January 1987, it decided to observe an Ecumenical Decade of Churches in Solidarity with
Women (1988-1998) to sustain the energy generated by the UN Decade.
During the 1988 Easter season, the Ecumenical Decade Churches in Solidarity with Women
was launched. Its objectives were:
The Ecumenical Decade began with much enthusiasm. Several events in the churches fuelled
high hopes. For example,
It was in this context that women from various regions coming together in Geneva in 1992
suggested that the second half of the Ecumenical Decade should be "offered back to the
churches". A good way of doing this, they said, would be to organize a programme of team
visits to every one of the WCC's member churches.
The Apostle Paul wrote to the church in Corinth that they were "a letter of Christ, written not
with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human
hearts". Those who would take part in the visits would be "living letters" from the churches to
each other.
Once approved by the WCC's executive committee, the idea of visiting all member churches
soon became an exciting reality. For the first time in its fifty-year history, the WCC launched a
"world tour" of the churches. Each visiting team included four people, usually two women and
two men, plus a WCC staff person. Team members were selected on the basis of their
commitment to the ecumenical movement and to the Decade and their sensitivity to the social,
economic, political, cultural and ecclesiastical differences among the churches around the
world. On behalf of the family of churches, these "living letters" encountered cultural,
ecclesiastical and local realities of the churches, in order both to show and to encourage
solidarity and to challenge the churches to move forward in their own commitments.
The task entrusted to the "living letters" was thus both relational and thematic. In nearly every
place, teams met with church leaders (patriarchs, bishops or presidents) and with women's
groups and movements. They also met with members of congregations and ministers, with
professors and students in faculties and schools of theology, always affirming women and
encouraging and challenging the churches to give concrete signs of their solidarity with them.
The agenda varied according to the place, and the programmes were prepared by the churches
visited. But all of them included conversations on the four priority topics of the Decade:
Rather than publish a volume of all these reports, the decision was made to prepare this short
book, which combines both reflection on the individual reports and highlights and quotations
from them. It underscores issues that surfaced repeatedly, suggesting that many so-called
"local issues" are in fact also "universal issues". This book is not to be seen as a scientific
study of the status of women today nor as an evaluation of the visited churches (indeed, in
most cases the church body in question is not mentioned in the excerpts taken from the
reports). Nevertheless, it is the carefully considered product of many human encounters with
thousands of wonderful women and men who agreed to share openly their understanding of
and perspectives on one of the most important ecumenical debates of our time: the place and
role of women in the church and the responsibility of the churches towards women in church
and in society. The teams reported that conversations were sometimes deep, sometimes joyful,
sometimes tense, sometimes apologetic and often constructive, offering a space for open
dialogue based on our common faith and common hope.
This book is the fruit of a four-year process. A "readers group" of dedicated and
knowledgeable persons received a copy of the report from every single team visit. This small
group of four women and one man from Africa, Asia, Europe, the US and Canada
rendered a tremendous service to the Decade by reading, annotating and highlighting all the
reports. They offered a preliminary analysis of the visiting programme in 1995 and wrote two
interim reports preceding this final one. I would here like to express my deep gratitude to
Mercy, Bertrice, Hal, Elisabeth and Marina for the faithful and sometimes tedious work which
they have put in. The profound understanding which they gained in reading the reports over
the four years inspired the comments and analysis which make up the substance of this
publication.
Writing up all of this information required the collaboration of a person able to listen carefully
to the findings of the readers and to discover fresh words to express them. Miriam Reidy
offered those gifts to this booklet. She was also able to take the necessary distance from the
overwhelming amount of material received throughout the period of the visits. On behalf of
the WCC women's team, I should like to recognize Miriam for her capacity to catch the spirit
of the visits and thank her for giving form to this publication. Our gratitude also goes to the
WCC Publications section, which kindly agreed to contribute her time for this effort.
Acknowledgments
The "living letters" programme was completed in October 1996. By that time, 75 separate
teams, made up of more than 200 men and women from every region and from all Christian
communions related to the WCC, had visited no fewer than 330 churches, 68 national councils
of churches and approximately 650 women's groups and organizations. At least two-thirds of
the receiving churches graciously offered generous hospitality to the visiting teams a way of
supporting the WCC by many churches which do not have the resources to contribute
financially on a regular basis. The only countries not visited (for a variety of reasons) were
China, Liberia, Rwanda, Burundi, the former Yugoslavia, Ukraine, Greece and Singapore, as
well as some churches in Indonesia, Costa Rica and Mexico. Only a very few WCC member
churches declined to receive a team.
Looking back it is clear to what extent this ambitious undertaking was possible only because
of the commitment and will power of many women and men in the churches and in the WCC.
Thanks to them, the hope became real. Here I can pay tribute by name to only a few of these
persons: Konrad Raiser, the WCC general secretary, who gave the programme his steady and
outspoken support; Sam Kobia, executive director of the WCC's Programme Unit on Justice,
Peace and Creation, and all of his colleagues, who rendered full (and costly support); and,
specifically, the women's team, which became the home base of the programme - Aruna
Gnanadason, Thembi Majola and Alexandra Pomezny, whose tireless collaboration made it
possible to overcome cheerfully some indescribable practical problems.
Indeed, there was a long chain of witnesses, in which each person was an indispensable link
yet unable to function without the others women and men, tasting and partaking and sharing
the joy of God's reconciled community, to God's full glory!
Nicole Fischer-Duchâble
Women are the Pillars of the
Church
They are active, strong and ready to carry the church's mission forward. Just as evident,
however, was the failure of many churches fully to receive and respond to women's gifts and
challenges, to admit women to key areas of participation.
Women are a majority in most congregations and participate strongly in the spiritual and
liturgical life of the church. They are active in parish life through a wide variety of lay
ministries - diakonia, fund-raising, teaching and counselling. They gain strength and
satisfaction from all these kinds of participation even if their contribution is not always
recognized and they are unable to attain leadership in these areas.
Diakonia provides good opportunities for valuable participation, including access to the
ecumenical movement. Tasks traditionally considered to be "feminine" cleaning and
beautifying the church, raising funds for church-related activities, running the social life of the
church are rewarding in themselves. At the village level in particular, we discovered, it is
mainly women who are active; without them the life of the churches would grind to a halt. The
monastic life, membership in sisterhoods and action-oriented women's groups allow women to
take solid responsibilities in the church.
On our travels we also met women feminist theologians and lay women who are ready to
assume new roles in the church. These women are determined to draw out the liberating
strands of their faith. They nurture a vision of a church which is a community of women and
men, which listens to hopes, dreams and frustrations, which is a source of liberation.
Some have found no place in the church to nurture their spiritual questioning and, after much
frustration, have started alternative church movements, new ways of being the church, of
expressing their spirituality. It could be said that, rather than these women leaving the church,
it is the hierarchical church which has left them. As one woman put it, "Sometimes you have
to leave the church in order to go back to the church." The Woman Church, with its
commitment to feminist perspectives and support for the community of women, is one such
movement.
We are aware that a distinction is sometimes made between women "in the church" and those
outside it. Alternative movements sometimes inspire suspicion or hostility and fear that they
will prevent true reform in the institutional church. We would suggest, however, that this is
not the case. Such alternative movements are signs of hope.
At the base level women have formed their own groups in which they carry out their own
programmes. Many of these have little to do with the main issues of the Decade, but
nevertheless women feel a sense of belonging... In one church the work of women's groups
includes providing shelter for destitute women and running a revolving scholarships fund for
young women at different levels of education. Another church women's fellowship holds
annual leadership training workshops... We heard many such stories of women helping and
affirming one another... and this solidarity makes a big difference for them. (Malaysia)
Extraordinary inner freedom and self-esteem are striking qualities of the sisters. This is
probably the secret of their immense capacity of self-giving, loving care and prayer
life.(Russia)
A woman reported on a conversation with a man after he left the Decade committee in her
church. He said the method of discussion and decision-making had been very frustrating for
him. Other women confirmed that men are uncomfortable with the circular, consensus model
that women's groups are attempting to model. Men seem more used to hierarchical meetings
where the chain of command is clear and decisions take less time. The men who are sensitive
to women's issues also seem to have developed a commitment to global concerns. "The
commitment comes when a man understands this (the Decade) has to do with his own
liberation." (Canada)
We understand why many women have opted to move out of institutional church life and are
being the church in other ways, nourished by networks, conferences, workshops, journals and
actions together. We also understand they will remain suspicious and sceptical of the church
indefinitely.(Australia)
This group operates as an activist/steering committee that initiates ecumenical worship
services and workshops to raise the issues of women living in poverty within the churches.
They have also been responsible for "She Breathes Into Being", an annual ecumenical festival
that celebrates women's spirituality and creativity. (Canada)
Women often feel that the only way they can get "out of the playroom" and be taken seriously
is to act quite independently of the established church. Yet the renewal of the church must
depend on valuing and honouring (often financially as well) the talents of all of its members
equally, and not just paying lip-service to the community of women and men.
(Switzerland)
To incorporate the Woman Church fully into the existing church structures is unreasonable,
because of its ecumenical nature. Such a move could result in dampening the innovative spirit
which is at the very heart of the experience. Also the institutionalization of the Woman Church
in its own right seems improbable, as this is not a clear purpose for some of the participants...
One could imagine that some women will return enriched to reintegrate on their own terms,
either as individuals or in groups. (Switzerland)
Throughout our journey we were inspired by evidence of women's endurance and
determination to overcome oppression. We met women in the churches who are working in
their local and national context to roll away the stones of violence, racism, economic injustice
and exclusion. These are women with an enormous zest for life, who struggle for life, who are
committed to social and political change, who are resisting the forces of death.
We were privileged to hear about and see many examples of women's courageous efforts to
be in solidarity with one another and with other human beings. Among these examples of
determination and resistance were:
- women running crisis centres for the victims of rape and battering;
A small group of young women theologians, students and wives of students... shared with us
their struggle to be admitted and accepted and their pain of not being allowed to the ministry
to which they felt called. We learned that what had been represented to us as an achievement
of the church the admission of female students to the faculty was in fact a victory they had
won after a long fight.' (Madagascar)
As Portugal's second woman pastor, she embodies two characteristics often subject to
discrimination: being a woman and her skin colour... She is in charge of a parish in a locality
with Portuguese, African and Gypsy residents [and]... tries to reach everyone equally. She is
now beginning to see the fruits of her work in that some young Gypsies are beginning to draw
nearer to the church. She also works with street children. At the beginning of her ministry she
had difficulty being accepted by both the men and the women. Now... the women have said
that for them it is good to have a woman pastor. The men too have overcome the initial
barriers and, like the women, are making use of the pastoral service. (Portugal)
The women students we talked to were all interested in feminist theology and gender studies.
They were members of a small group of students who have, since 1989, raised a budget to
invite a guest lecturer every year to cover some aspect of feminist concerns. These issues are
not in the curriculum; and the staff say that such issues cannot replace subjects in the
curriculum and that adding them would overload it. All the women students spoke of the
difficulty of changing structures, and said that men often feel accused, defensive, apologetic-or
macho. Some men do attend the lectures on feminist or gender issues, but tend to drop away
when the issues get too threatening. (Switzerland)
The church's commission for women is charged by the bishop with monitoring the inclusion of
women in all church programmes. It provides leadership for the Ecumenical Decade and
counsels and advises on issues that cut across the church's ministry. The commission initiates
pilot programmes such as the one on a policy for dealing with clergy abuse or training
seminars on sexual harassment which are then passed on to the relevant departments for
implementation and follow-up. The commission produced the idea of The Red Thread, a piece
of yarn worn on the wrist or the lapel to denounce violence against women. But it is now
working with a budget greatly reduced compared to 1988. (USA)
[They are] a committed group working on justice issues and promoting women's equal
participation in the church. The editor of their magazine has helped to produce a Decade video
(with "zero budget") which has been widely used... The women of the church and the
women's commission, rather than the church itself, have been the principal supporters of the
Decade. Funding was pledged but not allocated and finally had to come from the budget of the
women's commission. (USA)
The centre... is a realization of the aims of the Decade... It invests in the processes of
integration of immigrants and in care and attention for aged persons. The centre receives
particularly Moroccan women, who receive pluridisciplinary training: language courses,
sewing, cooking, driving. Because of its location the centre promotes integration between the
communities and peaceful living together of immigrant families and Belgians. (Belgium)
The team met in this Protestant social centre with a group of women working as theologians,
deaconesses, evangelists, members of a church board, or just as members of a parish... Five
churches support this centre financially. It is an open place where people come for help, meals,
clothes... (and) are brought together to form self-help groups. Belgians and many refugees
come here. (Belgium)
The work of the Church Women's Union is an admirable example of how Christian women
care for others. We did observe a tendency of the official women's associations of the
churches to leave their social involvement to CWU, which they fund and support, while they
continue other areas of sometimes more traditional work. (South Korea)
Women Are Forging Partnerships with Secular
Groups
Among the hundreds of church women we met, a majority are also active in the world outside
the church. Many work in partnership with people in secular groups. In social and political
activist groups, as part of the larger women's movement beyond the church, they are
challenging the church. By their involvement in the secular women's movement, Christian
women affirm the liberating potential of the gospel. They witness to a church which is present
in the struggles for life.
Their contributions to society and to the larger women's movement are manifold. Although
we cannot do justice to these efforts in this report, whose focus lies elsewhere, we wish to
note that this is a two-way process: Christian women not only contribute to the movement of
women outside the church but also draw inspiration from it. This inspiration was palpable at
the forum for non-governmental organizations (NGOs) during the 1995 UN women's
conference in Beijing. During our visits, particularly when we came into contact with church
women who are working with secular groups, we had a strong sense that the Ecumenical
Decade Churches in Solidarity with Women belongs to all of us, to the whole world.
Thousands of women marched and gathered together in celebration of International Women's
Day. In one town, hundreds of women from all walks of life marched to urge the government
to stop the increase in prices and commodities, electricity taxes, oil and to protest violence
against women by supporting the anti-rape bill. Church women were well represented.
(Philippines)
Gabriella is a secular feminist women's advocacy umbrella organization which has several
feminist church groups as members or associates. We found this group to be an oasis in the
desert a brave and fearless group of women, a sign of hope for the future. Their feminist
analysis was sophisticated and profound. They are working in such areas as reproductive
rights for women, violence and feminist spirituality. A broad spectrum of society is
represented in their coalition... They have worked with the national council of churches on
issues such as the sex trade and human rights for women. They describe their spirituality as
very practical, earth-centred, thus allowing the day-to-day "mundane" concerns to be the
spiritual focus. They reject the hierarchical spirituality of [some churches]. These churches are
suspicious of Gabriella's feminism and "leftist" analysis. (Philippines)
There are many forms of oppression inflicted by people and groups on other human beings and
groups. Christians dare to affirm that all such oppression goes against and denies the message
conveyed to us by the gospel of Jesus Christ, the gospel of love, and against the example set
by Jesus during his earthly ministry. Oppression is an affront to God, who created all and
every one, male and female, in God's image, as God's own icon.
The church, which claims to be the servant of the servant Christ, proclaims its discipleship to
the gospel of love. In living out its faith and faithfulness to God, the church is challenged to
respond to these three ethical issues.
This is not easy. To deal with the violence women experience even within the church is to
approach two areas - sexuality and abuse of power - which have always been taboo for the
churches. Racism, too, is a difficult reality to deal with. Yet, if the church is an ethical
community, then solidarity with women struggling against racism must be seen as part of its
sacramental ministry. The global market economy and the globalization of the world economy
is an incredibly huge and complex phenomenon that is difficult to get a handle on. Yet the
ethical challenge to the churches is to affirm and support women's survival strategies. Helping
to improve the quality of life in our communities is indeed a liturgical act.
Taking up these three social issues is a way of responding to the needs and deepest aspirations
of women in our churches and societies. The church's solidarity with women is not only an
urgent imperative for our times, but also a way in which the church reveals itself as a sign of
the Jesus community of equals.
As "living letters" we visited each church and group in its own context the place where each
one lives out its faith and faithfulness to Christ. The circumstances of each church are specific
and particular in a world of contrasts between peace and war, wealth and poverty, building
up and breaking down, love and hate, hope and despair, life and death.
We found more differences between regions than between denominations. Put another way,
there were more similarities within regions than within denominations. In almost all the
churches visited in Africa, for instance, we heard that women's concerns attracted far less
attention than current political and economic crises, even though it is women who suffer most
from war and poverty. At the same time, we found that the situations of women often vary
greatly from one place to another within a single denomination.
Yet, along with the incredible variety, we found certain pervasive global realities. Indeed the
everyday lives of millions of women around the world in very diverse settings often seemed
remarkably similar.
One such reality is the growing economic instability and poverty in all regions. The business
and corporate world is restructuring in ways that adversely affect women and children in
particular. The global market economy (or "New World Order") is widening the gap between
the haves and have-nots. Africa, Latin America and parts of Asia suffer from harsh structural
adjustment policies. Unemployment, underemployment and exploitation are terrible problems
in many regions. Even in the comparatively prosperous economies of North America and
Western Europe unemployment is growing. People feel insecure and there is a feminization of
poverty. Globalization has advanced to the stage where the North is as affected by what
happens in the South as vice versa.
Another global reality is the shift to a unipolar monopoly of political and military power. The
collapse of communism had a direct impact on the countries of Central and Eastern Europe,
and a less direct but still devastating effect on areas in the South where the conflict between
the two former power blocs was played out throughout the cold war. One unexpected result
of the shift to a unipolar world appears to be an upsurge in the number and intensity of ethnic
conflicts and demands for nationhood in both the South and the North; perhaps linked to that
is a rise in religious fundamentalism: Christian, Muslim, Hindu.
A third trend is the now undeniable appearance of multiple threats to the planet itself, rooted
in abuse of the environment and the depletion of natural resources, building up to what many
see as a massive global ecological crisis.
These global realities formed a background to what we discovered in the hundreds of local
situations that we were privileged to enter. We visited churches and women where they live.
And we discovered the stones.
During our time with the churches, we noted with sadness and anger that violence is an
experience that binds women together across every region and tradition. The phenomenon is
so pervasive that many women expect violence to be a part of their lives and are surprised if it
is not. Often, girls are brought up to expect violence, perhaps at the hands of a loved one.
Almost everywhere we went, this reality was acknowledged.
Although physical violence was the form most frequently named and described, we discovered
evidence of many types of violence, related and shading into each other not only physical but
also economic, social, structural/institutional, psychological and spiritual.
We are convinced that violence against women is not only being more openly reported, at least
by women, but is also escalating.
Forms of Violence
During one team visit, the friend of a local team member died after a battering received from
her husband. On another, the local team member herself was beaten by her husband, but stayed
on the team for the rest of its time in her country.
We heard that domestic violence against women is rampant: one in every ten women
experience it. (England)
The struggle begins in the womb. We heard of abortion of female foetuses detected through
amniocentesis tests (in urban areas) or female infanticide (in rural areas). Legalized abortion
has brought down the proportion of women to men, and family planning efforts could
exacerbate this trend. We heard pathetic stories of dowry deaths, bride burnings and suicides.
We learned that these happen even in Christian families; the rates do not seem to diminish even
with various legal measures in place. We heard of ostracism of widows by their close relatives
even among Christians, where the installation of elders was originally an effort to bring
justice to widowed women. It became clear to us that these forms of violence are neither of
the past, nor limited to certain groups or communities. (India)
Wife beating is common practice. The beatings range from hitting, to beating with a stick, to
stabbing, to injury which leads to death. Women of all ages, colour and socio-economic levels
are victims of physical and sexual abuse. Children too are being abused. Violence is not
confined to homes. We discovered that there is little security for women students in residential
universities, for instance. In one place we heard of violence against old women who are
labelled as witches. (South Africa)
Women reminded us of the double violence of being poor
and female. They spoke of the inbuilt violence of hunger, exhaustion, ignorance, illness and
death, and the pain of seeing their children suffer all of these. Listening to these women
confirmed our realization that everywhere the most vulnerable victims of poverty are women
and children. As if that were not enough, poor women told us about some of the violent acts
against them which poverty seems to engender.
Everywhere in the South, the effects of the debt burden and structural adjustment policies
social welfare cuts, unemployment, the informal economy, migration fall most heavily on
women and children. Women who are often left alone to feed and sustain their families must
labour for less pay in worse conditions than men. They are the first to lose access to education
and job opportunities, to health care, to social services, to paid employment. And, adding
insult to injury, it is not uncommon for men who are poor, oppressed, exploited or
unemployed to take their frustrations out on women.
In Western Europe, intensified privatization and deregulation, along with the moving of
industries and services to cheap-labour countries, are creating a new feminized poverty and
marginalization. In Eastern Europe the switch from centrally-planned to market economies,
with a corresponding elimination of social benefits, is having a similar effect on women as it
has in the South.
Women spoke of men's irresponsibility towards the family, child neglect, alcoholism, their
own loneliness, lack of self-esteem, lack of recognition of their work and inadequate
opportunities as violence. (Vanuatu)
Widows are exposed to "property grabbing", and they and their children are left destitute.
Men church leaders explained to us that this is a modern phenomenon, a perversion of the
original tradition of property reverting to the deceased man's family, where the widow and
children were provided for. (Ghana)
Culture and Violence Women must choose what is life- and community-building in culture,
recognizing also that culture is a changing reality which can be transformed.
As "living letters" to the churches in every region of the world, we could not help being struck
by the evidence that almost everywhere boys are still socialized to dominate and girls to be
subservient, and by the number of times "culture" was used to explain or justify violence
against women. Whether cited as a pretext or not, culture is frequently at the root of ill
treatment of women, and only rarely is it challenged by men in the churches.
Many men we met recognized the reality of violence against women, but quite often accepted
the fact or, worse, condoned it as part of a husband's responsibility to "discipline" his wife.
Rarely did we find men as angry and shamed as women are outraged and traumatized by
violence.
In some places we were saddened to learn that women, as keepers and transmitters of culture,
insist that such traditional practices as genital mutilation, bride price, dowry, widowhood rites
and subservience to men in general are right and good and must be maintained. It seems that
cultural forms and practices, however oppressive, give women a sense of identity and thus a
false sense of security.
In many places we were baffled by the contradiction between people's right to assert and
reassert their cultural heritage against alien cultures that have been or are being imposed on
them and the evidence that much cultural content leads directly or indirectly to violence
against women. Some people suggested though many women disagreed that women used
to be respected in the past, while what is happening today is a corruption of traditional
culture.
When we asked whose culture and tradition biblical, African, male allowed wife-beating,
rape, killing and child abuse, we were told that it was a very complex matter. Perhaps African
men fear women, for a long-forgotten reason? Towards the end of our visit, two men
suggested that men fear women because of their own insecurities. (South Africa)
If a woman exhibits intelligence, she is taken for a crafty person. If she dares to express her
views, she is labelled long-tongued. If she happens to be gutsy and vigorous, she is dubbed
masculine. If she is not hard-working, she is considered lazy. Woman as a whole are viewed as
the personification of weakness, as treacherous, as doing their duty only when they are
whipped or beaten. (Ethiopia)
Popular song lyrics and media messages, degrading images of women and violence in
advertising and films encourage violence against women. (Jamaica and Haiti)
The primary image of women is that they are of secondary importance, and this in itself
produces violence against them. Women are seen as baby-producers... Wives are put into the
same category as property. Widows are inherited by the husband's family along with all the
deceased man's other property. (Zambia)
Church leaders frequently explained violence on the basis of culture. In many cases this goes
beyond resignation and passive acceptance to actively adopting and perhaps even supporting
and perpetuating such cultural content. Church leaders who regretted violence against women
tended to rationalize by blaming it on culture or any one of a number of other factors like
poverty, war, women's submissiveness (or even lack of submissiveness!). Some argued that
women themselves do not want change, or do not know what they want.
In some cases church leaders denied that violence against women is an issue in the lives of
church members or clergy: violence was seen as something that happens only in the
community outside the church. Mostly, however, this is not the case, and too often the
perpetrators of violence against women are members of the clergy and church leaders. In one
church we heard clergy say they would be opposed to violence "except in certain
circumstances". One church leader spoke of "disciplining" his wife and being "thanked" by her
later. Several others queried the definition of "violence", wanting to distinguish between
violence that resulted in death, and "just hitting".
We were also struck by many churches' apparent inability or unwillingness to deal effectively
with violence. In many places it was said that the church lags behind secular society and the
state in awareness and practical action. We found that women seldom turn to churches for
support and advocacy. Very few churches have created safe places where the stories of abused
women are believed, where they can find relief, understanding, security and help to liberate
themselves. Those churches who do deal with it tend to see violence as an individual problem
and concentrate on helping the individual victim to survive.
Support is limited to "distant" statements by a few church leaders, often with no follow-up or
practical action. (Aotearoa-New Zealand)
A church leader said that violence against women is not a major issue for the church. A young
woman pastor then told the team about counselling a woman whose husband was abusing her
and whose mother was supporting him. All three were members of her congregation. Silence.
We concluded that the other church leaders did not want to comment, nor probably to hear
what the pastor had just explained. (Hong Kong)
A priest was found guilty of child abuse. Instead of disciplinary measures, he was only
transferred. (South Africa)
Most churches said there is no violence against women (except among the Gypsies). But at
one university we heard that it is widespread, with women being forced into prostitution, and
white slave trafficking. (Czech Republic)
At a Manchester refuge for battered women, women said they look forward to the day when
the churches will publicly state that domestic violence is unacceptable, and when clergy no
longer send women back to a violent relationship. (England)
The churches are responsible for the "violence of silence". (Scotland)
Churches are bad at dealing with anger, hence their inability to deal with violence against
women or sexuality. "They cannot deal with it now and will not be able to deal with it in the
future," one clergyman said. (Wales)
Instead of offering sanctuary and healing to abused women, the church too often is a refuge
for the perpetrators of abuse, whether they be clergy guilty of sexual abuse, elders who beat
their wives, Christian men who allow harassment at work to go unchallenged, congregations
which blame or fail to support a woman member who has fled her home. (Ireland)
"If we tell the pastor we are frightened of our husband, he will only tell us to be patient and
invite us to pray... The priest reminds us that we accepted marriage for better or worse," one
woman said bitterly. (Lesotho)
In many places we discussed theological justifications of
violence against women and misinterpretations of man-woman relationships in the Bible. Some
men we talked to tried to justify physical violence as a way of helping women achieve
"salvation". We felt that this kind of justification is related to a theology of sacrifice and
suffering, applied only to women and used to subjugate them. Unnecessary suffering is
imposed on women by using the Bible selectively to hold women down, justify male
domination and make women feel guilty if they do not comply. Theological arguments used in
counselling to protect the abuser include: "You are called to forgive seven times seven,"
"Jesus has anyway suffered more for you," "After this earthly suffering you will get something
better," "You must put the reputation of the church before your own life, so you should not
tell anyone."
Church women victimized by their husbands are admonished to be patient and to pray.
(Indonesia)
Women are taught to sacrifice themselves for the sake of the family and the church, women
pastors to give way to male pastors, overseas contract workers to accept low wages and
endure abuse. We heard a festival of quotations of all the restrictive things Paul said about
women... The main point was that women should not speak in church. (Hong Kong)
The image churches present of God, the way the Bible is read, with fundamentalist, literal
interpretations, the attitudes, manners and language of male pastors, and even some women's
refusal to accept women as ordained pastors were described as "Christian machismo".
(Brazil)
The Bible is abused," women told us. (Cook Islands)
Language that lowers the status of women continues to be used. Women are excluded in the
name of God. One bishop stated that women who want to change the status quo will be
punished by God. One woman expressed the unspoken pain of women who are forced to
change denominations when they marry. They wonder why this should be the case, particularly
when the husband does not even attend church! Women who don't follow their husbands
bring disharmony to the family, a bishop responded. (South Africa)
Women's Silence
Whether it is because of shame or guilt or fear - that they will not be believed, or will be
blamed, or will lose their dignity or out of fear of reprisals, or uncertainty about their legal
rights, or loyalty to a cause, to their family, community and church whatever the reasons,
women often refuse to "admit" that they have suffered violence. We believe that, because of
this blanket of silence, we did not truly hear the full story of violence against women.
None of the Orthodox women we met would dream of speaking about such matters at family
counselling centres. At the utmost they might tell a priest, because then it would remain
confidential. Women feel very strongly responsible for what happens, even the injustice they
suffer. (Finland)
Women suffer in silence and suppress their anger against men. This causes an inner violence.
(Vanuatu)
Violence against women was a topic on which it was very difficult to get a discussion going.
Almost none of the groups we met brought it up except the general secretary of the YWCA in
Oslo. The general hesitation was explained by one woman who noted that "it hurts too much
to talk about it; the church does not have adequate programmes to deal with it". (Norway)
The churches can do nothing about violence against women because women do not want to
speak about it." (Ghana)
Signs of hope
A church is facilitating group discussions to enable women to recover their self-esteem. It is
recognized that the more they participate in such groups, the more they are able to resist
domestic violence themselves, and are apt to intervene where their neighbours are being
abused. (Brazil)
Procedures to deal with complaints of sexual harassment by church members and clergy and
protocols for acceptable behaviour are being developed by most churches. (Aotearoa-New
Zealand)
The general secretary noted that violence against women is a reality, even within the church.
He said there had been instances of sexual harassment or wife-battering, and added that strict
disciplinary measures have been taken in some cases. (Tanzania)
"Ilitha Labantu", a township programme working on violence against women and children,
calls itself an NGO (but we saw it as the church in action). It was started by women, some of
whom had been battered themselves. It encourages women to speak out and stand against
violence. Women are trained to support themselves and help each other to economic
independence. They help women debunk local myths which cause violence to women like
the idea that a person who is HIV-positive will be cured by sleeping with a virgin. They train
clergy as counsellors. They produce educational materials. (South Africa)
Education Wife Assault is a community organization providing education and training on the
issue of wife assault and violence against children. Since the late 1970s they have developed
printed resources in languages other than English. The material is not just translated but is
done in consultation with the various communities. Education Wife Assault is funded by the
province of Ontario, charitable donations, fees for workshops, direct mail appeals and by
churches. The office is located in a church. (Canada)
The impact [of the Decade] is clearly good as men undertake to make joint decisions with
women, and take pledges not to batter their wives any more. Regarding the question of
tradition and Christianity, the assistant of the women's coordinator of the church noted that
the diocesans programme sought to sustain traditions that promote women; one benefit has
been the agreement that circumcision does not benefit to women. (Tanzania)
The 1983 WCC assembly in Vancouver, Canada, was told: "Racism, sexism, class domination,
denial of people's rights, caste oppression are all woven together like a spider's web... They
are at the root of many injustices which cause much suffering and death."
The World Council of Churches and many people in the ecumenical movement believe that
sexism and racism (and other forms of violence and oppression) are closely related. Indeed, a
Women Under Racism programme was created within the WCC's Programme to Combat
Racism to address the triple oppression faced by women who are poor and belong to black,
indigenous or minority communities.
Today, when communities and nations are often a patchwork of different racial and ethnic
groups, racism and the racism-sexism connection appear almost everywhere. This was
revealed in many places we visited, and was an important focus of discussion in Australia,
Aotearoa/New Zealand, the USA, Taiwan and India, where the plight of indigenous women
and women who belong to racial minorities within a majority culture was particularly
evident.
We found that while many issues bring women into solidarity with each other, racism
fragments that solidarity. Women of colour in many places report that the predominant
women's movement does not address their concerns. In fact, it is not only men but also
women of the majority culture who often discriminate against, exploit, exclude and oppress
them on the basis of race.
And the churches? We were happy to discover that many churches are free of the scourge of
racism and actively combat it in their communities. But sometimes we found the insidious evil
of racism present within the churches in the form of discrimination or outright exclusion of
people of colour or different ethnic background.
Sometimes these churches recognize that the sin of racism is present and are making strenuous
efforts to free themselves and society from it. Sometimes the difficulties of rooting out racism
were openly acknowledged.
At other times we saw evidence of racism of which people in the churches seemed largely
unaware, or which they denied or called by other names.
Some of the special commissions or working groups created by churches who recognize
racism in their midst and seek to deal with it are somehow removed from the centre of the
church's life.
Others fail to see the racism-sexism connection and to recognize that black, minority and
indigenous women are doubly (triply if they are poor) oppressed.
Some men in discriminated-against minorities or ethnic groups are themselves guilty of sexism.
When that is the case, women in these communities face a loyalty problem: should they speak
out and be accused of betraying their community? Often, they choose to remain silent.
And some church women's groups and movements do not recognize the presence of racism or
refuse to acknowledge its importance, thus confirming the accusations of indigenous, minority
and black women that women from the majority culture can be just as oppressive as men.
Church women's organizations and Decade groups have offered some support to the struggles
of women under racism, but it is not adequate. Sometimes it seems easier to be in solidarity
with oppressed women in other countries than to reach out right here. (England)
The church has a reasonable' record, and its major contribution has been in its participation
and support of the work of the Churches' Commission on Racial Justice. The church tends to
get to social issues as a by-product." (England)
They told us they have very little contact with immigrant communities. (Wales)
Historically this church has been a place where the African American male could express
himself. Women have sacrificed their desire for leadership so that the men could have to
opportunity to function in ways that are denied in the larger community. (USA)
Racial issues are the first priority in this African American congregation with a large outreach
ministry amongst gangs. The pastor spoke of women's issues as coming from white liberal
feminist groups who are not sensitive to this context. (USA)
The political crisis tearing the country apart has reinforced tribal divisions... and women and
children are the first victims. (Zaire)
Racism is present in society in a subtle but integrated manner, and discrimination against black
women is also felt within the church. (Brazil)
On the one hand is the Western type of traditional woman, well equipped in Western feminist
theology. On the other are the indigenous women, who might also be trained but... who are
not recognized as having a theology of their own. (Australia)
The churches are by and large ignorant of the particular disabilities the Maori community
faces... The team was struck with how many Pakeha middle class churches were out of touch
with marginalized Maori women. (Aotearoa-New Zealand)
The rule [excluding Christian Dalits from special government assistance] is made on the basis
that since Christians do not recognize caste and give access to education there are no Dalits in
the churches. The church responds that Dalits remain citizens and are entitled to all citizenship
rights. (South India)
The case of women domestics is a blatant combination of racism, classism and sexism. All
these workers are women, indigenous, poor and marginalized by society. In some cases
violence and sexual abuse are taken as part of the work contract. (Bolivia)
A woman told us about having left the church to find alternative sources of worship and
prayer, of being chastised and called primitive for going back to the traditional ways of her
people.(Canada)
Decade activists do not always see the links between their own struggles and other justice
struggles such as saving the environment, of Aboriginals for their identity and of the
unemployed. (Canada)
It is difficult for a black divorced woman to establish her credibility in the eyes of the church.
(Surinam)
Women in the church are facing double struggle: for their identity and participation as Koreans
in Japan and as women in their church. As one woman put it, "All work together on
discrimination against Koreans, but on discrimination against women we find little support.
(Japan)
Many women are poor because they are women. Discrimination bars them from
getting the education and training that could open the doors to a better paid and more
interesting job if indeed they have a job at all. In many countries women may not own or
inherit property or the means of production, or manage the finances of the family or a business
or a project, or have access to credit.
Discrimination socializes women to stay at home and to work without wages or recognition
for their contribution to the family and the national economies, making them totally dependent
on men.
If they do get paid work, it is generally in the lowest-paid and least-skilled categories. Women
must accept appalling conditions on the job, carry a double or triple workload (employment
plus household chores plus child care), must often give their earnings to the male head of
household and are the first to be sacked when jobs are scarce.
In communities suffering from economic hardship, women will inevitably be the hardest hit.
And they are also at the receiving end of all kinds of violence because they are poor and
female.
We found churches responding in a variety of ways - some helpful and some woefully
inadequate to the current economic trends that adversely affect women - economic
globalization and instability, structural adjustment policies, privatization and deregulation, cuts
in social services, growth in under- and unemployment, delocalization of industry.
Many churches in all regions mentioned poverty, economic constraints and limited resources
as priorities taking precedence over women's concerns. This response, to our minds, reveals a
lack of awareness that these are women's concerns, that women often bear an unfair
share of the burdens caused by economic injustice.
We also observed that in many churches economic crisis and poverty are used to explain and
sometimes justify the exclusion of women and violence against them in much the same way as
culture is often used as a pretext.
We found that many churches in the South are addressing economic injustice against
women with vocational training, income-generation, health care, home economics and other
development programmes. But while these programmes have much merit, they may neglect
the roots of economic injustice against women.
And economic injustice is often a reality within the churches, expressed in unfair salary scales
and barriers to women's access to leadership positions.
The churches are creating opportunities for job-sharing,
especially for their pastors, and ensuring that work at home is also counted towards pension
schemes for church employees. (Switzerland)
We observed with pain and shock the faces of poverty-stricken women struggling under
increasingly heavy burdens. The involvement of some churches with underprivileged
populations is clear, especially some Pentecostal communities where women come to realize
their dignity and participate in prayer and witness. (Peru and Chile)
All the churches are deeply involved in programmes assisting women to improve their
economic situation. This is closely related to violence against women. Dependency first on
their fathers and then their husbands to feed the family places women totally at the mercy of
men. Most of the projects we saw are very simple, local, down-to-earth... We were convinced
that economic justice for women is more likely to come from a million such self-help schemes
than from big industry or ambitious development projects. (South India)
Women are taking primary responsibility for economic empowerment. We visited a wide
variety of income-generating projects permeated by a spirit of self-help. A large array of
economic projects operated by women are often rooted in the life of the local congregation...
We feel that links between small, informal economic ventures offers hope for sustaining
national economies. The church with its network of economic ventures within and across
communities could well offer a significant complementary economic process appropriate to the
national situation and of particular relevance to women. (Kenya)
Even the stones along the roadside speak as women, old long before their time, sit in the hot
sun all day breaking stones for the equivalent of 50 US cents a basket. (Zambia)
"Pastors use the money we raised without informing us how and where it goes. We are angry
about this!" (Cameroon)
Despite a massive government awareness-building campaign on the situation of widows -
which the churches themselves initiated - the latter have not followed through with
appropriate measures. When widows are forced into prostitution or must sell illegal drugs or
alcohol, the churches often denounce the immorality of such activities but rarely concern
themselves with the reasons.(Cameroon)
Finance and property seem to be the province of men in many congregations, and women are
excluded from financial decision-making. (Canada)
Some women [in the former German Democratic Republic] are so desperate that they have
themselves sterilized to increase their chances of getting jobs. (Germany)
Agriculture forms the backbone of the economy and... approximately 80 percent of
agricultural labour is done by women..., a pattern that requires women to contribute significant
unpaid labour and limits their inheritance and ownership of property and access to loans
because of the requirement for collateral... [This] makes women the most vulnerable to the
downsizing in the public sector required by structural adjustment policies. (Kenya)
Women told us that sometimes they go hungry so as to make funds available for church
projects. (Kenya)
The men often go to South Africa to work as miners. Often the money does not come as
expected, and women are left to find other ways of feeding their families and sending children
to school. (Lesotho)
We were told that the church does not pay pensions for the hundreds of women evangelists
actively engaged in grassroots ministry. (South Korea)
In poor families if the man loses his job he feels humiliated, becomes passive. Often he
abandons his family or turns to alcohol. The woman reacts to protect life, to ensure the
family's survival. (Argentina)
Many women feel the churches blame them for being divorced and poor and have left the
churches as a result. (The Netherlands)
Most of the people we met were middle-class - the beneficiaries and not the victims of the
economic system... It is therefore not surprising that female poverty failed to register as a
priority, or indeed as an active concern within the churches. (Scotland and Ireland)
There were fears that the worst victims of economic liberalism would be the women. The
manufacturing industries in the free trade zones employ mostly young women, who are paid
low salaries and are exposed to discrimination, social insecurity, violence and discrimination if
not outright exploitation. Educated women who are higher on the employment ladder are
faced with gender discrimination, although the law, in principle, guarantees equal rights.
(Malaysia)
It seems that the deaconesses are a great pool of well-trained cheap labour. (Philippines)
We learn from scripture of a new understanding of humanity and human relationships, a vision
which the church exists to embody. The first creation story in Genesis tells us about the
common blessing and later the common responsibility of women and men: "...in the image of
God he created them; male and female he created them. God blessed
them, and God said to them..." (Gen. 1:27-28, NRSV).
Later, in Jesus, God's incarnation, this vision of humanity was clarified. Jesus reached out on
numerous occasions in his ministry, to involve both women and men in ways which were
unheard of in his time. Jesus calls his followers "friends", placing himself within the circle of
friends, as a way of discipleship "because I have made known to you every thing that I have
learned from my Father" (John 15:12-17). Jesus invites his followers into life in
community-based friendship and love rather than according to a master-servant model.
Friends care for and share with each other, all equally created in the image of God. This is the
image of the church which Jesus left to his followers/friends. This is also the vision which
many women hope to see the church become: the vision of a transformed and renewed church,
inclusive of both women and men, created equally in the image of God, participating fully.
Such a vision has serious ecclesiological implications for our common understanding of
the nature of the mission of the church in and for the world.
The call for full participation for women's freedom and power to respond to God's call to
service in every aspect of the life of the church is first of all a justice issue. Second, it
is related to the age-old question of the self-understanding of the church. What does it
mean to be the Church in the Spirit of Christ? We believe this calls for a renewed
understanding of the roots of ecclesiology. Women around the world expect responses by the
churches that will transform their lives.
The reports from the various team visits disclose signs of an emerging new self-understanding
of what it means to be the church, glimpses of a new community in which no one is regarded
as another's slave, where no one is subservient to another, but rather a community in which:
"there is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and
female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus" (Gal. 3:28).
While the depth of women's love for the church and their willingness to commit themselves to
work in the church were strikingly evident wherever we went, just as evident was the failure of
many churches to receive and respond fully to women's gifts and challenges, to admit women
to key areas of participation.
Women are a majority in most congregations and participate strongly in the spiritual and
liturgical life of the church. They are active in a wide variety of lay ministries. They gain
strength and satisfaction from all these kinds of participation even if their contribution is not
always recognized and they are unable to attain leadership in these areas.
Women are active in the traditional and well-defined areas like Sunday schools, mothers'
union and women's fellowships. From within these traditional places they make a significant
contribution, but most men are yet to be convinced of the need to include them at other levels.
There is no incentive whatever to enter into a conversation on the ordination of women.
(Pakistan)
As far as theological education is concerned, the number
of women students is increasing in almost every region. Yet visits to Africa, Asia, Latin
America, the Pacific and Europe all noted lack of deliberate support for example, through
scholarships for women to pursue theological education. Furthermore, too few theological
schools have women faculty, either lay or ordained, or libraries with feminist literature, or
courses that deal specifically with theology from women's or a feminist perspective. In some
instances feminism is dismissed as a Western idea, and related topics are considered irrelevant
for preparation of students for ordained ministry. The unfortunate reality in most theological
institutions is that hermeneutical tools to reinterpret oppressive biblical texts, particularly the
Pauline texts, have yet to be put in place.
Women's participation in ordained ministry, particularly the priesthood, is even more of a
problem than theological training. There are churches in all regions which forbid the ordination
of women, even where they can cite no doctrinal or theological reasons why this should be so.
While some churches recognize women's gifts, many are quite slow and even resistant, to
recognize and support women in ministry. Even where women have after much struggle
been trained and ordained, fair pay, stable placements and moral support as they exercise their
ministry are not guaranteed to them. After graduation many women ministers must wait a long
time to receive a posting. They may be forced to choose between vocation and family. Those
whose husbands are pastors may be obliged to follow them. Once given a posting, women
ministers may face doubts and even hostility from both men and women in their
congregations.
In situations where the husband and wife are both pastors, the church actively encourages the
wife to "support" her husband but not to remain the pastor in charge. (Indonesia)
In some churches which accept the ordination of women but do not have enough pastors, it is
maintained that women in the church do not really wish to take advantage of the opportunities
to become pastors. Other churches do not actively promote or encourage women to put
themselves forward for the ordained or theological ministry. (Kenya)
One woman pastor said that when she was training for the ministry, she was told by her
director of studies that four factors were against her when it came to accepting her for
ordination: she was a foreigner, she was a woman, she was married and she was pregnant!
(Switzerland)
Most discouraging was the clear evidence that women
are marginalized by their own church structures. Church leaders in general do not seem to
recognize the imperative for an inclusive community of women and men in the church. All the
teams noted women's lack of or limited access to decision-making processes and thus power
in their churches; and some church leaders insisted that church constitutions cannot be
changed. This situation both reflects and promotes a similar imbalance of power in society.
The reason given for the failure of women to participate in leadership was that "women are
their own worst enemies" because when given opportunity to elect women, they elect men.
(Ghana)
The number of top women in positions of hierarchical responsibility in the churches is
infinitesimal... It became clear that most churches do not have a policy and have not developed
a theological position to empower women to become clergy, theologians or lay leaders in
significant positions of decision-making in the church. (Kenya)
We were deeply disappointed to note that the participation of women in the decision-making
structures of the church is minimal and often non-existent. At the parish council level it is
constitutionally impossible, although attempts are underway to change the constitution to
allow women to become members. At the level of the diocesan councils few women are
included, but hardly any in the executive bodies. Even the executive of the National Council of
Churches had only one woman member. (Pakistan)
These women did not feel supported, but rather felt used by their church... We were impressed
with their work and very affirming of it. The women were hungry for affirmation and very
appreciative of our visit and conversation. (Philippines)
"We have no problem with our women. Everybody is happy, because our women have no time
to think," a male church representative said. (Myanmar)
We observed that women respond to rejection by the
churches in different ways: with frustration and anger, with resignation, with patience, with
courage and combativity, with despair. Such feelings may lead them to accept the status quo,
or try to change it from within, or go "outside" to be the church as they understand it.
In the women's judgment, the process of empowerment should not be understood simply as a
gift to be received from the men who presently control the instruments of power. Power can
be unceremoniously retrieved. (Kenya)
We found many women who have ambivalent feelings about whether or not to join the
decision-making structures of the churches. On the one hand, they believe that their
participation is necessary in order to change things. On the other hand, they feel that the
process is too slow, that too often they have to adjust to a male-dominated style of working
and that it costs too much mental and emotional energy to be in the forefront of this struggle.
But the situation is not altogether bleak. The team met men Ä though not often in leadership
positions Ä who told us that they were in favour of sharing decision-making responsibilities
with women, and render structures more inclusive. In Decade committees, women and men
generally work well together. Some churches have set up leadership training courses for
women, favour the hiring of women in case of equal qualifications and delegate more women
to ecumenical bodies and gatherings. (Germany)
Not all church women feel rejected, however. Some are
perfectly content with their roles and activities, "at home" in their churches, accepting their
church's traditions and ecclesiology.
Concerning the place of women in the church, they insisted on the specificity of each of the
roles of men and women. At the parish level the priest has mostly a spiritual role, whereas the
administrative decisions are taken through the parish council, which is mostly in the hands of
women. Women are very active in diakonia, charity, social and religious education work and
they are well recognized. They are well prepared to fulfill these tasks, often through academic
training which in many ways can be compared with the training of priests. This clear
distribution of roles does not seem to lead to frustration... We did not hear any complaints
about the absence of women at the top levels like the holy synod. They even told us of their
satisfaction to share in the decision-making process at several other levels, in particular in
those instances where women's sensitivity is most needed. (Russia)
It should be noted that women may find it extremely
difficult to voice discontent in the presence of men in general and church leaders in particular.
Time and again during our visits we had the experience that women said little or even
expressed general satisfaction while male church leaders were present but eventually, when the
men were not there, told quite another story. Occasionally, it happened that the visit
encouraged women to speak out for the first time about being denied a place in church
structures, even in the presence of the head of their church!
Often men were the first to tell us how it was for women. When the women in the same
meetings finally spoke, their assessment of their own situation was radically different from that
given by the men. In turn, the men simply did not appear to hear what the women were saying.
(Zambia)
Our meetings with women alone produced more viewpoints, information and observations
than those with church leaders. We were told that in discussions with their male counterparts
the women often lack the courage to broach their problems as social rather than women's
issues. (Portugal)
The family is probably the human institution that commands the most respect within the
churches, if not in society. Throughout the visits, the need to protect the family as an
institution at all costs was frequently mentioned. What was striking, however, was that the
only family model which churches and church leaders had in mind and held up was the
traditional, hierarchical, patriarchal family in which women play a submissive role.
Thus, when it is said that women ought to make the family their first priority, to "protect" the
family, to "serve" the family, to "return to their main role" of caring for the family, this can
sometimes be an appeal or command to submit to patriarchal order and authority. When this
happens, the family is being used as a value system to oppress women.
If women question their subservient role in this system, they are accused of wanting to destroy
the family. We believe that most women naturally and instinctively love the family; in any case,
they have been socialized to take primary responsibility material, psychological, moral for
the family. Thus they are often trapped by such appeals and accusations, caught between their
love and duty on the one side and their rebellion against unjust treatment and yearning to be
recognized as full human beings on the other.
Fortunately, in our discussions with churches and women, we occasionally caught glimpses of
a way out of this trap. Women are creating and the Decade is celebrating new forms of
relationship between women and men, whether in the framework of the blood-related family
(parents, children, aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, cousins, grandparents etc.) or new forms of
family. Here and there, the notion of motherhood is being extended to apply beyond women to
the caring community. Here and there, the role of fathers is being explored and expanded to
encompass behaviour that used to be described as "mothering". Here and there, women are
suggesting and men are beginning to consider a more inclusive worldview.
A young woman asked whether churches and the WCC should not question the positions of
some feminist theologians who, for her perspective, undermine values of family and
community. (Belgium)
The Decade is seen as feminist and feminists are seen as responsible for breaking up families.
(Canada)
Many young women today feel it is too stressful to have both a career and family and are
opting for the family. This trend is also being supported by the increasing emphasis on the
traditional understanding of the family. (Denmark)
They also talked about the serving role of women in the church and saw it as a result of the
Karelian cultural tradition, in which the father has always been the patriarch of the family and
was served by the women. (Finland)
Women, due to family pressures and expectations, do not have the opportunity to pursue
higher education beyond. Domestic stereotyping permits the husband to continue higher
education, leaving the wife to play her traditional role of the "homemaker", yet she cannot
sacrifice her job, as her income is a very important contribution to the family. (Finland)
"The man is the head of the family according to the Bible, and in Hungarian culture women
generally do not take on leadership roles," the women pointed out. (Hungary)
Alternative life-styles which are chosen by women and which replace the traditional nuclear
family were often mentioned. Despite the growing pluriformity of life styles and relationships,
the churches often stick to the traditional family unit as the preferred basis for society. Many
requested that these alternative life-styles be recognized and be treated on an equal basis as the
traditional form of family life. (Germany)
Churches are challenged to review male images of God and the way in which theology is done.
It is also necessary, we were told, to assess whether the image of the family, and more
specifically of the traditional patriarchal family, can continue to be a theological image which is
inviting, helpful and healing. (Germany)
The team was firmly and politely told by several women that what we were saying about
women was against the teaching of the Bible. Also that we had come in and tried to disturb
the peace and order of the church and of the family. (Taiwan)
We heard several times from church leaders and pastors and also from some of the women
that the question of male-female relationships is better approached from the perspective of the
family rather than from that of the women. (Malaysia)
Domestic violence is a confidential matter that should in their opinion be dealt with privately
by the clergy. In the Asian culture the family unit needs to be maintained... The head of
church who hosted us explained that rather than focussing on violence as such his church
addressed the importance of keeping the family together. (Malaysia)
A suspicion or clear aversion to "feminism" was often expressed, and often seen in contrast,
even opposition to family, a primary value in Polish society. (Poland)
No thought is given to the role of the father. (Portugal)
Oppressive Theology, Interpretations of the
Bible
We were often reminded during our visits that oppressive theology and misinterpretations of
man-woman relationships in the Bible are sometimes used to justify not only violence against
women in its various forms but also other expressions of sexism - from exclusion from
participation and power, to economic injustice, to racism against women.
The issue of theology and biblical interpretation which denigrate, ignore and oppress women
came up in our discussions with church leaders and women in two ways. Sometimes people
were aware that this is a problem, and are struggling with it. Women in particular are often
aware that the Bible is used to hold them down, to justify male domination, to prevent them
from participating, to make them feel guilty if they do not comply, to make them accept
sacrifice and suffering. "The Bible is the problem!", many women told us.
Especially in Latin America and Africa we heard that women need to reread scripture through
their own eyes. In their view there is a need to place the biblical stories in the historical
context in which they were written, to take the cultural assumptions of their writers into
account and, above all, to choose what is life- and community-building in the Bible. When
theological education was discussed, we sometimes heard a call for feminist literature, for
courses that deal specifically with theology from a women's or feminist perspective, for
hermeneutical tools to reinterpret oppressive biblical texts, particularly the Pauline texts.
Women are calling not just for specific courses on feminist theology, but for full integration of
women's concerns and perspectives into theological education. They want to be present as
students and as teachers.
On the other hand, in many instances men - and church leaders in particular - do not see a
problem, and even cited theology and Bible passages to explain or justify confining women in
their churches to their set roles and situations.
In some places, often in the context of Orthodox churches, women affirmed that it is possible
to be faithful to tradition and still challenge what it has done to women, to work gradually but
steadily for change. In some cases we were happy to see that this is happening.
One church leader expressed the totally prejudiced opinion that [women engaged in feminist
theology] were all unmarried mothers or divorcees who hated men; that they were
anti-establishment and had broken with the traditions of their original communities.
(Bolivia)
The main divisive issue in the church continues to be the question of inclusive language... The
resistance to inclusive language probably touches layers deep down in the minds and souls of
men and women. (Canada)
Theological colleges... train women to practise ministry in a male style. (Canada)
Inclusive language was not evident in any worship. (Antigua)
From the Bible Paul's writings were particularly mentioned as being used to affirm the
subordinate role of women. (Botswana)
We were most surprised when a church leader spoke in an inappropriately humorous vein. He
referred to St Paul in a light, ironic tone, concluding his statement with the famous "Women,
obey your husbands"... The pastor's humorous tone caught our attention as he used it
whenever a woman intervened in the ceremony. (C“te d'Ivoire)
The male-dominated structure of the churches seemed very evident to the team. Some biblical
passages of St Paul are interpreted so as to justify a men-led church and a male-oriented
reading of the gospel. (Lesotho)
Lack of partnership in church structures was usually justified (by men) with quotations from
the Bible. (Nigeria)
The extreme view is that since Jesus did not include women among his twelve disciples he
meant that only men should be ordained... Apostolic succession must be maintained, and this
means only men would be heads of the church. (Nigeria)
The fact that Christ is male is giving men a sense of being superior to women, and one has
easily forgotten the stories of Jesus and the women. (Canada)
Even the visibility of women within normal worship is limited. (Solomon Islands)
The patriarchal leadership structure is very apparent in the physical arrangements during
festivities. The chiefs, head pastor and wife... sit in specially designated places quite far
removed from the rest of the assemblage. (Marshall Islands)
Often the very arrangement of places at worship, especially the two-tiered seats by the altar,
reinforces the man's central and elevated place. (Cameroon)
Mary's role as intercessor on behalf of sinners is replicated at the cultural level: the role of
women in Portuguese society is mainly to smooth things out, to act as intercessors or aides.
This leads directly to a situation of subordination of women, who have been denied the
education that would enable them to be independent and autonomous. This condition was
especially evident during the Catholic-inspired dictatorship (1928-1974), when the equality of
citizens before the law was recognized, "with the exception of women, owing to the
differences in their nature and for the good of the family." (Portugal)
There is no provision for biblical or theological formation from a woman's perspective.
(Uruguay)
Sexuality was an underlying but mostly unspoken subject in all our visits. Where it was
mentioned it was often with a negative connotation, in relation to problems like prostitution,
sex tourism, promiscuity, polygamy, adultery, AIDS, violence against women. Rarely is
sexuality celebrated in the church as a source of joy, companionship, an expression of love.
Occasionally people explicitly acknowledged that churches cannot deal with sexuality, and that
this is what prevents them from dealing effectively with these problems.
We were made aware of the double standards of sexual morality prevailing in many cultures
and churches: women are punished for sexual activity or adultery while the men involved are
excused. Women are sometimes blamed for their husbands' infidelities; when a man has AIDS
some communities and churches may consider that it is somehow the wife's fault, and she is
shunned by her relatives after his death.
We found that in many contexts women's sexuality and biological functions are perceived as
impure and unclean, while no such opprobrium is attached to men's sexuality and bodily
functions In many cases the idea that women are somehow rendered impure, or are at least
handicapped, by menstruation, child-bearing, motherhood and their physical structure is used
as a pretext to prevent them from being ordained. Some churches still uphold the Leviticus
laws relative to women and impurity; liturgy and rituals related to the "cleansing of women"
are still used in a number of churches.
To what extent do these attitudes in church and society express men's fear of and desire to
control women's sexuality? Such fear and control is seen in many churches' disapproval of or
harshness towards divorced and widowed women and the pressure placed on single women to
marry. More fundamentally, this fear and control may be what underlie sexism in general, and
all forms of discrimination, injustice, domination, and oppression of women by men.
The ordination of women is not a theological question: the ministry is basically open to
women... The obstacles are more at the cultural and psychological levels. This can be seen
partly in such restrictions as permitting women to be ordained only after age 45, when they
can no longer become pregnant. (Myanmar)
Male promiscuity is directly related to the male "stud" mentality, a cultural inheritance from
the slave culture where men were kept as "breeders", not as responsible fathers in a family.
Many women feel that when their mate leaves them it is their fault for not having satisfied the
man... Some church leaders expressed different standards for men's and women's action in the
world. For example, "Women should be restrained" and "Women who dress improperly invite
rape." (Caribbean)
The continuing ecumenical study - both at the level of the WCC and in many local settings - is
certainly relevant to the aims of the Ecumenical Decade. The gospel and culture study is
confirming the need to respect cultural contexts everywhere, reminding us that culture is the
inescapable medium for the expression of the gospel and helping us to understand that culture
and religion are capable of being both oppressive and liberating. We are learning about the
need for contextual theology and inculturation and at the same time that the gospel can and
should criticize and transform what is oppressive in culture.
Surprisingly, elements of culture which emerged most often during the visits were the
oppressive ones. In a period when values and life-styles are being globalized along with the
economy, one might have expected to hear from men and women alike that culture has much
to offer women in terms of providing a sense of identity and integrity. Yet this was seldom the
case.
Rather, we heard that culture assigns unequal male and female roles and destinies: domination,
strength, wealth, pleasure, ease, knowledge and power for men; submission, violence, poverty,
pain, hard work, ignorance and powerlessness for women. In the churches the influence of
culture was sometimes deplored, sometimes accepted as inevitable, and sometimes even
affirmed and celebrated. But only rarely did church leaders proclaim their faith in the power of
the gospel to criticize and transform culture, or tell us about their efforts to fulfill the mission
of the church in this way.
Thus churches blame culture for their inaction. Yet when the culture (or secular society)
moves ahead faster to accord women their rightful place in society, the churches tend to
distance themselves from it.
Women are asking the churches to play a leading role in providing a gospel vision of solidarity
among women and men. Did not Jesus in his earthly ministry challenge all that is oppressive in
the culture of his times? Did not Paul call on the communities he visited to place the gospel
over and above culturally-sanctioned practices? Did he not preach and live out the message
that in Christ all odious distinctions are erased? And yet we heard to often that it was Paul
who gives men the right to discriminate against women!
As one person put it, "In our culture the man is always in front while the woman follows." In a
number of cases the women shared this view; they did not feel qualified for positions, so they
would not even challenge the men. Even where the opportunity exists to nominate women,
they do not do so, because they lack confidence in themselves. (Malaysia)
A church leader said: "We do not discriminate against women. Women play important roles at
home. Men put women in the top place at home. They have important roles to play in looking
after the children, doing housekeeping tasks, and they have the freedom to say anything at
home. In community gatherings, women have a special place. The fact that they are not
allowed to speak is not a discrimination. According to our custom in the maneaba, if they
want to say something, they have a channel to go through (that is, their husbands). I cannot
understand why things are made complicated. I guess these ideas reach our women through
the influence of women from bigger countries where women are not cared for." On women's
ordination, he said: "It is true that the church discriminates against women, but this is for the
good of the community to obtain a peaceful society. Otherwise, we would go against
culture." (Kiribati)
We questioned why women must remain at the back if they are so powerful. The church leader
told us that this is because women were traditionally not given education and such attitudes
continue. There must be a deliberate attempt to encourage change, even if it is with legislation,
and women themselves need to be reoriented - it is often they who oppose the leadership of
women! A member of our team quipped that the image which has been carried over into the
church is that of a woman carrying all the load - something on her head, a baby on her back
and a baby in her belly. (Ghana)
The main reason given for the apathy is that this is all part of the culture; and that in a
predominantly Islamic country churches cannot do much on the issue. But male domination
and apathy are also predominant within the Christian churches. The churches need to be
helped to see through the hollowness of this argument. (Pakistan)
The good news comes to many women as a liberation from the Confucianist patriarchal
tradition, which might be one of the reasons why some 70 percent of church members in
Korea are women. But even the church is not free from the influence of Confucianism... This
patriarchal value system has influenced many church members, both men and women. Because
of this, women who are struggling for change and for recognition of their own contributions
sometimes receive only little support and often feel very isolated and alone. (Korea)
The principal of the theological college believes violence against women will disappear as
society naturally progresses. Also, he and his colleagues were at pains to explain that certain
forms of contemporary behaviour towards women were a corruption of culture and tradition,
which were in themselves women-oriented and caring. There was amazement at the ways in
which they felt women in the West could choose simply to leave and/or divorce their
husbands. (Zambia)
Solidarity and Divisions among
Women
In many churches tension between two groups of women is a kind of "stone" needing to be
rolled away. On the one side are women's groups or fellowships whose members, whether or
not they question the church's patriarchal tendencies and support of an oppressive culture,
nevertheless play the role society and the church expect them to fulfill. They are faithful to the
church, usually very active, serving it with all their hearts. They are well aware that they are
the "pillars of the church". For many, their fellowship is like a home and family base. In Africa,
many women belonging to traditional church women's associations wear a uniform, and thus
are called "uniformed women".
On the other side, new groups are emerging who, through their education and training, often
in the traditional women's fellowships, challenge the preconceived roles assigned to them.
They are assertive and question tradition when it is oppressive. They are also dedicated to the
church, but are ready to undertake new roles.
Often the former are older women who keep younger women from taking responsibilities, or
who will not allow harmful traditions to be stopped or even questioned. This threatens the
church itself because the younger women leave.
These two groups have much in common. They come from the same cultural background, and
they love the church. Unfortunately, their public quarrels unwittingly help church leaders and
men in the churches to maintain the status quo. For example, the latter will justify their
inaction by saying that women are "disorganized" or do not know what they want.
It may be that it is because they lack real power that women play the roles expected of them.
By gaining approval, they stand to gain a little bit of power, mainly over other women. The
strategy may be an unconscious one; it is clear that much of the approved, traditional women's
work is motivated by genuine devotion to the church. Yet by joining together to do what is
expected of them, they may inadvertently become an exclusive club that excludes younger
women.
Other divisions between women appear. There may be jealousy and misunderstanding between
lay and ordained women, for example. Frequently the issue of ordination and even of lay
ministry is used to divide women, and they are set up in competition against each other. In
some churches women pastors told us that women in their congregations do not support
them.
As we have noted earlier, race economic and class interests can also destroy solidarity
between women. There are divisions between women who consider themselves feminists and
those who do not. Some in the South say that feminism is an imposed ideology from the
North. Many men and women equate it with man-hating. The word has all sorts of negative
connotations. We noted, however, that women who may not call themselves feminists are
committed to the same goals and values as their feminist sisters. And in our view there is space
for all to reach out to each other in the common struggle.
In spite of these tensions we felt that overall the Decade has revealed a deep well of women's
solidarity with each other. In many places women bond over life-threatening issues, including
violence and other forms of oppression. Even where they are divided, most women have a
strong sense of the need to be in solidarity with each other.
Our team recognized regretfully and after many conversations that these two "women's
branches" of the church co-exist uneasily. In fact there is almost undeclared war between
them... Both factions deserve much better and, above all, the women they seek to serve and
encourage require their total support. (Togo)
There is fear of feminism in the church and women are afraid to name themselves as feminists
in the church. (Canada)
The team was struck by the evident lack of awareness of issues with which women are
struggling. When a question was raised about the spiritual contribution of women, feminist
theology was equated with radicalism. (Finland)
The general secretary [of a feminist women's Christian group] cited an incident of trying to
cooperate with the Christian council. This failed because of opposition from some of the
women members of the council, who perceive the group as dangerous and do not want in any
way to be associated with it. (Hong Kong)
We also noted that the Decade has divided women from each other. At least three groups have
emerged: an official Decade group of men and women, theologians and laypeople, appointed
by the bishop; a group of feminist theologians and pastors, created at the initiative of the first
woman to be ordained, who has also created a Woman Church; and a group of deacons and
women studying to be deacons. At the same time, a certain division was evident between
ordained women and women who work in the church but are not ordained. The phrase that
recurred several times was "we have to make visible those who are invisible", in other words,
those active laywomen who are not officially recognized by the church. (Iceland)
Simultaneously church women experience great openness to their involvement as well as fear
to open up new avenues leading to new ways and styles, to new theological reflection and
expressions of faith. (Italy)
Throughout the mid-Decade visits we discovered many
signs of new life, of a breaking out from the stoned-up tombs of oppression. We found that
God's resurrected spirit is particularly evident among women. Their witness in the face of
injustice in church and society points to the reality of resurrection. The Decade has inspired
and supported their witness.
Unquestionably, the Decade has had an impact on the women in the member churches of the
World Council of Churches. Our visits consistently revealed the Decade's capacity to
empower communities, women's groups and individuals. It has served as a source of hope for
renewal, as a medium for women to express their solidarity with each other, as an occasion for
women - often with great courage - to voice their ideas and feelings openly in the presence of
team members and men in their churches. At best it has been a catalyst, energizing women to
launch new programmes addressing their concerns.
In some places, we found that the Decade had created or allowed existing tensions between
women to surface. Different understandings of the role and function of women in church and
society emerged even as they were pursuing the Decade goals. Happily, in many of these
cases, the Decade (and our visits) provided a trusted environment where differences could be
acknowledged and discussed and common concerns identified.
With deep regret, we also discovered that the Decade does not seem to have elicited the same
kind of response from men in the churches. With the rare exception, it would be fair to say
that the Decade has not been one of churches in solidarity with women. The seed is still falling
on rocky soil. Many churches did not make the Decade an official priority or devote significant
time and energy to realize its aims. Rather it proved to be a Decade of women in solidarity
with women.
Sometimes, different groups within a church who had never seen the need to reflect together
on the Decade issues came together around a table to meet with us. Sometimes it was church
leaders and women who were thus brought together. In one country, for instance, our visit
was experienced by men and women alike as an eye-opener, an occasion to hear (and not just
listen to) women's voices for the first time. And sometimes the Decade, or our presence,
prompted church leaders to discuss for the first time the issue of their solidarity with
women. In one place we heard that church leaders had been embarrassed that so little had been
done and were spurred into action by our impending visit.
Despite such impacts, most churches and church leaders responded to the Decade rather like
the men in the upper room to the women who rushed from the garden to tell their story of the
rolled-away stone. Just as almost all of the men in the upper room dismissed what the women
were telling them as "idle tales", throughout the Decade many church leaders have remained
indifferent to or complacent about what women are saying and feeling.
On our visits, some men told us that the church has other, more important priorities. Social,
economic or cultural realities come first. Agreeing that the Decade is important, these leaders
yet consider that the time is not ripe for sweeping changes. Some said that churches are
already addressing women's concerns under other agendas. We wonder if these men are not
using a rhetoric of sensitivity to women's gifts and concerns to mask comfort with and
commitment to the status quo - an ability to "talk the talk" but not to "walk the walk".
Others told us that the Decade goals are too conflictual, would damage relations within the
church, or with other churches, or with secular society, or with the state, or with other faith
communities.
A very common reaction was that the Decade is a "women's thing". In some places, where
feminism is seen as an imposed concept from the West, it is feared and rejected. In these
places, church leaders were not available for dialogue with us or, if they were, expressed
outright hostility to the Decade.
Not all church leaders discounted the women's story as "idle tales", however. From time to
time, we too found a positive response. Among the men in the upper room, one reacted with
amazement. "Peter got up and ran to the tomb". When he saw what had happened, "he went
home, amazed" (Luke 24:12). And there were places where churches - leaders and people of
God - reacted with amazement to the Decade, recognizing its central importance for the
future of the church and its place in society, suddenly realizing that gender or community
issues are not just "women's issues" but belong to the whole community of women and men,
that is, the church.
As far as the mid-Decade visits programme goes, believing that the medium itself is often the
message, we would wholeheartedly endorse the "living letters" approach or methodology.
This programme was the first occasion when all WCC member churches were visited around a
single major ecumenical theme; for some churches, it was the first-ever official visit from the
Council. For others (in every region) who were feeling isolated, our visit was a precious
opportunity to become acquainted with representatives from other member churches.
We were excited by the relational effects of the programme on visited and visitors alike and
would like to emphasize its importance for the WCC. We believe that the Council should
continue to be an ecumenical forum for dialogue and encounter, explanation and study of
matters that affect the ecumenical and global community. To our mind, making possible
extensive people-to-people contacts is an excellent means of fulfilling this task.
It must also be said that without the WCC women's office and the working group, neither the
Decade nor the visits would have happened. For us the Decade and the mid-Decade visits
demonstrated that a strong nucleus, capable of making and sustaining connections, building
networks, helping to shape collective will is critical in a time of powerful global forces of
disunity and destruction.
And finally, the impact of the visits on the "living letters" themselves cannot be
over-estimated. Over 200 people of different ages and experience, from diverse cultural
backgrounds and church traditions were involved. Composed of at least two men and two
women from different parts of the oikoumene, united for a few days by their common task,
each team itself lived out what being an inclusive community means, while the visits provided
a chance of experiencing the ecumenical movement in its essence.
Women team members said they learned the meaning of solidarity with women in very
different circumstances. And for some men, participation in the team and the visits were a
moment of "conversion", allowing them to internalize the concerns women speak of, and
thereby gain a new understanding of what it means to be in solidarity with women.
Reactions from Staff
The Decade team visit is a great opportunity to meet with church people and talk about the
ecumenical movement, the WCC, the member churches that we represent, the various
programmes, and to hear from the churches their concerns. The concept of living letters,
written in the hearts of people, was really excellent. The church leaders were amused when we
said that living letters cannot be thrown in waste baskets, but that we could dialogue together
and express our common concerns. There are of course moments when we reflected whether
we should be culturally sensitive, politically correct or gender-sensitive. It is not always easy,
as we feel we are visitors. But we were able to respond in our own ways. This is the value of
coming as a team from different regions. The concept of living letters visiting the churches
every now and then, especially for the new churches as a way of nurturing relationship, is very
important in the years to come.
Erlinda Senturias
I think the methodology of teams visiting all the member churches is an extremely important
tool for the WCC to use in the future. I believe these visits brought the churches closer to the
WCC and provided an opportunity to interact with the member churches in a novel manner;
we developed a new appreciation for those member churches visited. This is particularly true
and very important for member churches that are rarely otherwise visited. It is just unfortunate
that the visits could not be followed up with other contacts, visits and financial support to
assist them in their work on the Decade.
Deborah Robinson
It is my firm conviction that the Decade team visits have put the issues related to women in
church and society more forcefully on the agenda of the churches. Even those churches that
were defensive or evasive were forced to confront the questions. It was fascinating to watch
those who have never really faced those questions before realizing that this issue can no longer
be avoided. It was also a positive experience to see women, who had been rather reluctant in
their advocacy, receiving strength and courage by the presence of an international team.
Wesley Ariarajah
Our visit can be summarized in the images of a mirror, a bridge and a wind. In our discussions,
encounters and sharing, team members and local partners became mirrors for one another: we
were invited to look at our own thinking, our culture, our practices in the light of women's
experiences, so that their words are no longer an "idle tale" to the church leaders.
The visit enabled us also to build a bridge by means of which those who should be listening to
each but who usually do not even meet could get to know each other - for example, women's
groups and church leaders, or church women's groups and secular NGO groups.
The team was a wind God's spirit with us, through us and in our midst blowing softly but
steadily, making a smouldering fire flame up again. Its burning was a visible sign for
communities where men and women were allowed to feel, to act, to think up to their full
potential. Here the house of God was no longer doing without many of its resources, but
rather preserving the ones in women which are so often undermined or restricted.
It was very good to have WCC representation in the flesh. One of the benefits was that it
helped deal with the negative image in the press of the World Council of Churches. It was
good to see that WCC programme units are represented by people, not just policy statements
and programme outlines.
The church representatives visited said that ecumenism was not possible without personal
relations and they therefore valued the "living letters". For the churches the logical conclusion
of the living letters was a "living report", which they preferred to reports written with "foreign
eyes and in strange languages".
We know that the Decade and our visits raised
tremendous expectations among women for real change in their own denominations. We have
expressed our vision of the Decade of Churches in Solidarity with Women as an unfolding
process, a movement for transformation that will continue to build momentum beyond 1998
and into the new millennium.
To translate this vision into reality, to prevent the loss of what has been achieved, to ensure
the churches do not "forget" the purpose of the Decade, to make sure that women are not
disappointed again, we who have served as "living letters" affirm that churches and the WCC
today face the following opportunities and challenges.
For the Churches
Violence against Women
Racism against Women
And we urge men who themselves suffer from racism and draw strength and sustenance from
their membership of black, indigenous or minority groups to take the responsibility to
recognize that they themselves are sometimes guilty of oppressing their wives, sisters,
mothers, who thus suffer from multiple forms of oppression.
Economic Injustice
We therefore call on the churches to understand that women and men are persons created in
God's image and to God's glory and thus that the community of women and men - a new
community of all persons across gender, racial, ethnic class and economic lines in partnership
and solidarity with each other is of the essence of the church and its mission
today.
We call on churches and church leaders to move away from a passive attitude of not being
against women, to seeking actively to make full participation of women an ethical imperative
based on our common faith.
We affirm that churches have the opportunity
For the WCC
In our view the Ecumenical Decade - Churches in Solidarity with Women has important
implications for the self-understanding of the World Council of Churches.
We believe the Council is called to reclaim a prophetic, ethical and moral voice on the subject
of women in church and society, to monitor women's issues, to provide inspiration and
leadership. It seems, however, that the Council is caught in an uncomfortable place between
reporting on where the churches are now as regards their solidarity with women, and
challenging them to do better.
We therefore suggest that one way of being that prophetic voice and issuing that challenge will
be to make clear that member churches are expected to do all their power to bring
about the full participation of women, as an ethical and theological imperative.
The current exploration of the Common Understanding and Vision of the WCC does talk
about mutual accountability on racism, sexism and classism. But its main focus is on member
churches staying together. We suggest that "staying together" requires a commitment to
inclusion. Those who are presently excluded could then bring their gifts to the ecumenical
table, with all the possibilities for ecumenical renewal which that would bring.
More specifically, we call on the WCC
But hope gradually turned to frustration as women realized that the Decade of the
churches' solidarity was becoming a decade of women in solidarity with other
women and with the churches!
Each team wrote its own report, based on the experience of the visit, which was then
forwarded to the receiving churches by the general secretary of the WCC. The estimated 1500
pages of reports which were produced offer a wealth of information to the WCC about the
situation of women in the churches around the world and about ecumenical relationships and
situations in a variety of cultures and ecclesiastical traditions. It is important to note that, in
order fully to respect women in their local culture and to affirm their work in the churches,
one of the four team members was always a woman from the country or region visited.
More than fifty senior staff colleagues in the WCC took part in one or more mid-Decade team
visits. Through them and their experience, the spirit and intentions of the Decade continue to
spread throughout all the units and departments within the council. Many colleagues came
back from the visits shaken by this first-hand encounter with the situation of women in the
churches visited, but all returned with tremendous respect for the often-unrecognized services
and commitment given so generously by women.
Consultant to the Mid-Decade process
World Council of Churches
Around the world, Christian women witness to the image of God within them. The hope of
renewal for church and society rests in this witness. Wherever we went as "living letters" to
the churches, the depth of women's love for the church and their willingness to commit
themselves to work in the church were strikingly evident. All over the world, women are the
pillars of the church.
In some churches we observed that women's
activities include mainly Bible studies, choir rehearsal, preparation of food for the guests and
doing embroidery and sewing. Other church women's associations are more active in social
development projects, health issues, justice and peace studies, ordination of women and
leadership skills training. (Cameroon)
Women Are Determined to
Endure
- national and regional study groups and associations of feminist theologians;
- women's Bible study groups;
- women involved in credit cooperatives and revolving loan funds and all kinds of
income-generating projects;
- women organizing community soup kitchens and feeding centres, literacy and vocational
training programmes;
- women working with refugees, migrants and internally displaced people;
- ordained women and women in lay ministries, women pastors' organizations, and women
accepting the challenge of leadership;
- women breaking their silence and speaking out, campaigning against violence or harmful
cultural practices;
- women who have carried the Ecumenical Decade of Churches in Solidarity with Women
sometimes in spite of the churches.
It is a
congregation led by a woman... This congregation is one of the many begun by women who
realized the need to work with the poor; and it continues to provide a day-care centre and
creche as well as educational programmes for children and adults of that community... It is a
congregation alive and prophetic. But what was disheartening was that the pastor of this
church is not ordained. She represents the strong voices of women... who have for 62 years
been struggling for the right to ordained ministry. (South Korea)
The team
was deeply impressed by their meeting with several women and women's organizations, both
within and outside the church, that have begun to address the issues... and have been
conscientizing the women and empowering them. Both Christian and Muslim women have
taken to the streets to protest laws that discriminate against women. (Pakistan)
Physical violence apparently has an equal impact on women across all boundaries of class,
race, age, educational level, cultural situation, geographical status, and denominational
affiliation. Nearly everywhere we went, women said that physical violence in their societies,
homes and churches is a primary concern. It includes beating, rape, incest, trafficking in
women and forcing them into prostitution, genital mutilation, widowhood rites such as ritual
"cleansing", abortion of female foetuses or female infanticide, dowry deaths, bride burnings
and suicides.
One woman in three says her first sexual relation
took place without her consent. (Haiti)
More often than not we are left alone with our
children to face the huge tasks that should normally be assumed by both parents. (Haiti)
Many women said that being humiliated and belittled, not
being allowed to participate in important activities and decision-making, having no control
over their own bodies and reproductive functions, being blamed for physical violence against
them ("She asked for it!"), being perceived as mere objects or possessions or reproductive
machines or beasts of burden or cheap labour, being expected to be unconditionally obedient
to men, being portrayed (in culture and in the church) as irresponsible, over-emotional,
unclean, less than human - all these are forms of psychological and spiritual violence which are
just as painful as the physical, social or structural forms of violence mentioned above.
Two WCC workshops at the NGO Forum in Beijing in 1995 suggested that both religion and
culture are ambivalent towards women. Both liberating and oppressive elements can be
identified in culture.
Although some men said that violence was absent in
traditional culture, women disagreed and said that inequality, hierarchy and violence were
always there. They added that anyway it made no sense to refer to original traditions now; the
latter have been corrupted by 500 years of repression, manipulation and cooptation.
(Bolivia)
The churches and Violence
Although every church is against violence in principle, our visits unhappily confirmed that not
all are totally opposed to its practice. The churches tend to let violent men go free and at the
same time prevent women from speaking out against the violence. The subject is seldom if
ever mentioned either from the pulpit or elsewhere by church leaders. The failure of churches
publicly to condemn such violence, and state clearly that it is against the teachings of Christ
appeared with distressing regularity.
The church does not deal with family problems
because we present an ideal picture of the family as in the gospel. We do not discuss the
fundamental problems. We do not get to where it hurts. (Argentina)
Many women are leaving churches because of what
they experience as spiritual violence. They feel attacked by a "violent theology" of "God as
demanding atonement" and "violent images of salvation". (Aotearoa-New Zealand)
Over and over again, wherever we went, we were made aware of the existence of a "culture of
silence". Women have been socialized to make them accept great injustices, including
violence, in silence.
The good news is that, although the culture of silence is
still strong in every region, women are beginning to speak out, refusing to accept violence in
silence. Often during our meetings with them, we were impressed by their courage in speaking
openly in places where the church leaders might condone violence.
Women are obliged to put up with violence for fear
of being abandoned with their children. Seventy percent of single-parent families are mothers
on their own with children, and there is a serious male-female population imbalance.
(Haiti)
The stone of violence is huge, heavy, almost immovable. Yet in many places people are trying
to roll it away. Timid and isolated efforts perhaps, but yet signs of hope. We heard about men
in the USA volunteering maintenance work at a home for battered women, a campaign called
"A Life with Dignity" launched by the women's programme of a church development service
in Chile in collaboration with the state women's office on domestic violence and an alternative
to the traditional widowhood rites provided by a Ghanaian church.
A Methodist church is preparing women pastors and
women church leaders to care for cases of family violence; another congregation has
organized care and assistance for battered women; and a church-related centre is organizing
workshops to train people to care for battered women. (Argentina)
Racism Against Women
One white woman said: "I only know how to
oppress that was all I was taught. We were taught that we were superior and we did not
speak or mix with non-whites. For many whites it has been upsetting to hear blacks say, We
have rights too'." She was aware of her upbringing, but not of how this same dynamic was
being played out in our meeting. There were those who were used to having power over
others and being in control, and those who stayed silent unless given space. (South Africa)
Economic Injustice
Women and the Economy: Signs of
Hope
The main issue here is poverty. Whether to use he'
or she' is a petty thing. What is important is whether she or he has anything in their stomach,"
a pastor said. (Zambia)
Barriers to
Participation
One year after the mid-Decade visit, a church
president said that he had discovered that women are keeping his church alive, that without
the women there would be no life and hardly any regular activities in the church. "They do
everything that we men decide without them," he added. "If they were to leave, we would
have only decision-makers and no doers. (Togo)
In one church where women have been ordained
since 1970, only four of the sixty ordained clergy are women. In another, where women have
been ordained for over 120 years, only 30 of the church's 9000 ordained ministers are senior
women pastors. (USA)
It is evident that, in spite of limited concessions, the
men do not seem to be prepared to share power. Likewise we should underline that because of
this situation, certain women are discouraged and no longer take the pains to integrate men in
their fight. So they stay separated in an incomplete women's world. (The Netherlands)
There were women who were not interested in the
hierarchical structure and its attendant "power games" and who did not see the need to be part
of these structures. They rather preferred to serve in a dynamic way wherever they were
placed. (Indonesia)
A woman leader, herself a theologian, said clearly
that women do have the opportunity to become leaders by going to the monastery, where they
are fully recognized. (Poland)
Most of the meetings included male leadership. The
latter always assumed the role of moderators and spokespersons even when our questions
were directed to the women present. The women themselves in almost all cases would not
respond immediately and waited, as if they also expected the minister, bishop or whoever to be
the one to respond. We detected some degree of uneasiness on the part of the male leaders
when we posed questions to the women and some hesitancy on the part of the women. (South
Africa)
Because the wife does not need to work, the family
need no children's allowance. This penalizes the family, which is nevertheless celebrated as the
highest value. (Austria)
There is often a polarization between male and
female perceptions of the content of theology and of the ways in which faith and spiritual
experiences can be expressed. The gap between the two perceptions can be quite deep and we
even heard people wonder whether they are still part of the same Christian church. One of the
areas in which this polarization becomes visible is in worship and liturgy, where
male-dominated images of God and language are still dominant.(Germany)
The cultural code of discipline is favourable to the
men and is very unfair. There is a double standard of morality. Women are expected to be
virgins when they marry. Women suspected of having relations with other men are beaten...
Even the wife's family could tolerate the beating if indeed the woman is at fault. Women
cannot say no to their husbands. Procreation is seen as their role in society. If they object they
could be beaten or money could be withheld from them. (Kiribati)
Women's Liberation" is seen as a white middle-class
North American phenomenon and another example of cultural imperialism in the Caribbean.
Patriarchal hierarchy, however, was never seen as a contribution of the same imperialism.
(Caribbean)
From a group of women who meet regularly under
the auspices of the ecumenical council to discuss the role of women in church and society, we
heard comments like: "We are not militant feminists," "Feminist theology doesn't interest us,"
and "We are aware of the situation in our church which is so conservative in many ways, and
we are still glad to serve." (Slovakia)
Generally speaking, we as "living letters" were received with appreciation and hospitality by
churches and national ecumenical organizations. Most churches with local Decade committees
worked hard to provide accommodation and useful and interesting encounters within a
programme that provided a maximum of coverage with enough time to record, reflect and
build community.
The impact of an exercise of the magnitude of the Ecumenical Decade and the mid-Decade
visits needs to be evaluated. The Decade itself of course is not yet over. Its effects will be
discussed at the WCC assembly in Harare in 1998. We would suggest that, given the ongoing,
dynamic nature of the Decade aims and goals, its success or failure is scarcely measurable in
objective, fixed time. We can say, however, that the 1987 decision of the WCC central
committee to launch the Decade set in motion a process of planning, priority-setting and
networking at local and global levels that is still unfolding. A movement of reflection
and action with transformative power was started that will continue to build momentum. The
WCC and its member churches are being urged anew towards the formation of inclusive
community.
Executive Secretary for Health and Healing
Churches Action for Health
WCC Unit II-Churches in Mission
The Decade team visit to South Africa was one of the best trips I have had during my four
years at the WCC. What I liked most was that we interacted extensively with people in their
reality. Even though we were challenging the leadership and other groups we met on the four
Decade issues, we got to know something of them as people, gained a better understanding of
their reality and learned a great deal about how they viewed these issues. The experience and
the people I met will always be very special to me.
Executive Secretary
Programme to Combat Racism
WCC Unit III-Justice, Peace, Creation
The participation in team visits reconfirmed my conviction that there is no better form of
communication than personal encounters, which make for far more intensive and interactive
communication than can ever be achieved through letters and documents. The second
important experience was the bond built among team members, even when we disagreed
among ourselves on several issues and how they might be approached.
Deputy General Secretary
WCC
Reactions from teams
Team to Myanmar
Team to the Philippines
Team to Portugal
We call on churches to name and denounce all the various forms of violence, culturally
sanctioned or not, against women inside and outside the church. We call on church leaders to
declare together that violence against women is a sin. We urge them to take the side of the
victim instead of sheltering the aggressor, to offer pastoral counselling that targets a concrete
improvement in the victim's life situation, instead of simply preaching patience, silence and
submission. Often violence against women finds theological justification in the teachings of the
church. We call on the church, with the full participation of women theologians, to
deconstruct and reconstruct such basic, biblical and doctrinal teachings so as to usher in
liberational paradigms and perspectives.
We affirm that churches are challenged
We also challenge church women's organizations to recognize the links between racism and
sexism and to encourage and enable women to work in solidarity with other women across
racial and ethnic lines.
We affirm that churches are challenged
Participation
Churches, which have developed sociologically as communities led by and embodying the
concerns of men, are called to understand that women are not one among many priorities on a
long list, nor simply a cause to defend.
Christ came to give life for all. We need to develop and practice a theology of justice,
empowerment of and solidarity with women. We believe that churches, theologians,
theological schools and faculties have the duty to rethink theology, theological teaching and
pastoral formation in the light of this challenge. We believe that they are called
We ask the churches